I just read James' blog post. I thought our marriage was fine, but now I'm wondering if I'm not just kidding myself. I mean, I've cut down quite a bit on my dating over the past several years in the spirit of marriage and all that, but then when I read his post...it was hard. Obviously he's head over heels for REI. How can I compete with that? I'm no camp stool, I know. But does he have to rub in it for all to see/read? Hmmph.